How do you deal with the anniversary of the loss of your loved one? I have two coming up in May. On the 19th it will be ten years since my father passed and on the 30th it will be one year since my grandmother passed. People tell me that time heals all wounds, but I'm not sure I believe that. I find that it hurts just as much today as it did the day it happened. I try to think of the happy times we had but I just can't seem to get beyond the pain I still feel. How do I get pass that?
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