My husband passed away on the side of the road on July 28, 2005. He was cremated, so we put a cross at the spot he died at, with his initials on it, my 2 children and I signed it (the cross)and put on the cross our thoughts and heart felt feelings. Last weekend, I went to where the cross was to put new silk flowers there, and when I got there...the cross was gone. I just sat there and cried, cried and cried. How could someone remove something so personal to our family. How could someone be so COLD to do such a thing??? I'm angry, so very angry inside. And yes, I know we can make another one...but it's the meaning behind why we put it there in the first place. Has anyone else experienced anything like this??? Whenever I see a cross on the side of the road, I find myself praying for the family of the loved one that had died. Never in my thoughts would I even think about removing a cross that represented someone's loved one. I'm just really angry.
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