I really need help here. For those of you that dont know my story I will try to sum it up. My brother killed himself Christmas day 2011 and left a 7 year old son. My brothers wife was cheating on him with another woman and left him for her so they were legaly divorced for about 8 months before he killed himself. She went and took everything he owned in the name of their son and I know she has been spending money on herself. The next stage came a week before Christmas 2012 when my Grandfather passed. He was my world. The following March 27, 2013 my father had a massive heart attack and died and my mother followed him on May 14th 2013.
I am still trying to get the estate closed and taken care of. There have been a lot of issues and my parents ignorance caused most of them. The will stated that everything was to be split 50/50 between my nephew and myself, the there were so many bills that my nephew basically got nothing except two accounts with his name on them. My mother changed the benificiary to me on the life insurance polocies and tried to change her pension over to me also as my father was the benificary, but the pension company refused to change the benificary even though my mother filled out all the paperwork to do so before she died. I had to go in front of a judge and have a ruling on who the money should go too. Well my gold digging Ex-sister in law got wind of it and hired an attorny to threaten me that if I did not pay them 5K they were going to contest this and cause me to lose the entire amount to either legal fees or the estate where it would go to pay bill collectors. I had to agree to pay it or lose it all so I said I would, but I wont have the money to do so until the estate is closed. So now they say I have until the end of the month to pay it or they are going to file to reopen the case. This would allow the creditors another chance at the money that in my opinion is rightfully mine. I am furious to say the least and I view what they are doing as extortion. :(
I dont know how to cope with my anger with these people and honestly I firmly believe that some people are a waste of flesh. :(
My headache went away dont know why I was expecting the worst .I went to my dad and we've be bbqing and doing scrap booking with my step mom even played games and watching movies .i really enjoy it so much I thinking about all the military and being thankful for there service
I'm on day two with no cigarettes. I have nicotine gum but I haven't used it. I wasn't planning on quitting but I have no money to buy cigarettes so I am cold turkey. I'll probably cave when I get paid again and buy a pack but I'm the meantime, does anyone have any advice on how to fight the withdrawals? I know a few of you are former smokers so any tips or tricks?