Bereavement - Teens Support Group
This community is focused on teens who have lost someone close to them. Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss, and while most people focus on the emotional response to loss, it can affect us behaviorally, physically, and even spiritually. This is a safe place to talk about how you're feeling and coping with grief, and to share experiences that have helped you through.
Hi. I just recently joined this community. I have joined a lot of communities, but I don't know why it took me so long to join the bereavement group.
Six of my relatives have died in the past three years. It bums me out because I just got to meet a lot of them, including my grandma on my mother's side, and then she died. A friend I knew died, my cat died, the cat's veternarian died before that... And now I have one relative who just got seven bypasses or something like that, and my other grandma isnt looking too well. Will two more people die this year?
This has been a major contribution to my depression. I have NO family support in this whatsoever. When my grandma died, my mom treated me like I didn't have the right to grieve over her. She said "My mother just died." when I was trying to talk to her, and I said "Well, my grandma just died," and she gave me a look like, 'you barely even knew her.' Thats true- we just moved back to the states three years before she died. Still- three years I got to know and love her- don't I have a reason then to grieve?
Six of my relatives have died in the past three years. It bums me out because I just got to meet a lot of them, including my grandma on my mother's side, and then she died. A friend I knew died, my cat died, the cat's veternarian died before that... And now I have one relative who just got seven bypasses or something like that, and my other grandma isnt looking too well. Will two more people die this year?
This has been a major contribution to my depression. I have NO family support in this whatsoever. When my grandma died, my mom treated me like I didn't have the right to grieve over her. She said "My mother just died." when I was trying to talk to her, and I said "Well, my grandma just died," and she gave me a look like, 'you barely even knew her.' Thats true- we just moved back to the states three years before she died. Still- three years I got to know and love her- don't I have a reason then to grieve?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Exactly one year from today my grandad (my dad's dad) died and my dog Sky who I had for 12 years died in last July. I've had several other pets die in my lifetime and I miss all of them. My mom's dad (my papa) died about 3 and a half years ago, my nana (my mom's mom) died about 10 years ago and my grandma kay (my dad's mom) died when I was one.
My aunt is in the hosptial right now after having a triple bypass or something on her heart. My doctor told my dad earlier this year that if he didn't stop smoking he would die in 2 years and he still hasn't quit.
I myself am not afraid of dying, its just the ones around me dying is what scares me.