Bereavement - Teens Support Group

This community is focused on teens who have lost someone close to them. Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss, and while most people focus on the emotional response to loss, it can affect us behaviorally, physically, and even spiritually. This is a safe place to talk about how you're feeling and coping with grief, and to share experiences that have helped you through.

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why?

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Well, im 16 nd so far i have lost, my great nan. my dads parents, my cousin and lasty, nd the most painful, last year i lost my dad. i miss them all but i miss my dad the most. it was just me nd my dad since i was 7 coz my parents split up nd my siblings lived else where. he just had a stroke, without warning, my brother found him on the floor. its amazing how one event can change ur whole life. i had to move in with my nana but that didnt work so now i live with my mum and her boyfriend. my dads stuff is in the shed, i need to sort it out, but i just cant, im not ready. its even harder coz i fight with my mums bf all the time, he makes comments bout my dad nd calls his stuff in the shed shit, which upsets and angrers me. my dads stuff is not shit, every bit of it has a memory. i reli loved my dad, i still do but i feel like a big part of me is missing. my dad was my best friend. he even put up with taking me shoppin.

why do i keep on lossing people. nd why did my dad have to go. i reli dnt think i will ever get over this, i dnt think the pain will eva go away.
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yup. let me put it this way-loosing somebody u love sucks. there will always be a place in your heat where the death of your family and friends remains. my gradmothers died over 3 rsago and i still think of them every day. i thin that is really rude that u mom's bf treats you like that. im gonna give ur advice right back to you: have u ever tried to talk to ur mom ort even her bf? people come and go and that stinks. your dad sounds like an amazing man. all he would want is for you to be happy. so go out and live your life to tthe fullest. if you EVER want to talk im here!

take care,
davi xoxo
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I lost my dad almost 2 yrs ago so I no how u feel... even before he died he was in hospital for a long time and as soon as my mum new he wasnt comin back she changed his room around and burnt everything of his... It hurt me in too many ways... I didn't no what 2 do or who to turn to but I managed... Just... But now it's happening again cuz im losing my mother as well... and for the pain it will never really go away... not fully but it will fade with time... He's gone to a better world and when the day comes when u go to join him u will be smiling but the people u leave behind will be feeling exactly the way you're feeling now... so it all goes in a circle...
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aaaaaaw im sorry. y dnt u tell ur Mum bout her bf or zeee council or sumthiin. n dnt worry bout ur Dad. hez gn 2 a better place. n besidez u still hav heez Memoriez rite? liv wiv them. he'd b happy knowin ur happy. liv ur life 2 the full while u can-x
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