My wife and i have been seperated for 18 months. But over the last 8-9 months we have been working on things with plan of getting back together again. I ask her regularly about shifting back in, she feels as thou i am pressuring her and smothering her. While we get on well enuf she seems to be stalling in terms of making the final decison to come back, and everything i say and do to encourge her seems to work in reverse. while i'm not perfect and will stuff up occasionally and say the wrong thing (i am a guy after all!!!) I have been very loving ,supportive and patient, but this doesnt appear to be enough??? She appears to grow more independent and aloof every day and now i feel her mood change when we are together and a stoney wall go up so even basic conversation is a struggle. Am i flogging a dead horse here??? No pun intended. should i be doing something differntly??? It appears unlikley she may now come home and i am gutted and sick. The last week has been a struggle to function properly and i have lost 4kgs in about as many days. I have convinced her to give counselling another try, this is my last hope.
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