I am currently going through a divorce. I was married to my stbx for 8 years when he walked out on me and our then 1 yr old son. We had been together a total of a little over 13 years. He claimed that he felt we knew each other to well and wanted a change. The month before he left I had read a couple e-mails of his since he either accidentally left his e-mail open or did it intentionally in hopes of me reading it and I had evidence that he most likely cheated on me. He still denies that he cheated and continually lies to me. He moved out a year ago in October and I finally moved out of the marital home this past August. 2 weeks after I moved out I dropped my son off with him for visitation and he had already had the new girlfriend at the house with our son. Not sure how long he has been with her, but long enough to let her leave things at the house and to give her a garage door opener. I had so much trust in him and never thought he would be the type of person to do something like this and the more I am finding out the more I realize I don't even know who he is. I also read an e-mail of his where he was going by a different name so I suspect he may have been living a double life or something. I also just recently found out that for 6 or 7 years of our marriage when he would go out with his friends he would take his wedding ring off and do things he should not be doing as a married man. Not sure what he exactly did since I didn't ask the mutual friend of ours for details. This friend stopped hanging out with my ex since he didn't like what he was doing and had to much guilt over not telling me before he left me. I am having a hard time moving on and even thinking about dating again since I have so many trust issues due to him completely betraying me. I know that I am better off without him and that I deserve someone who will treat me a whole lot better than he did. It just boggles my mind how someone could stay with me that long if he was unhappy for a number of years as he claimed. I wasn't exactly happy, but thought things would change once he was done with school and there was less stress for him since he worked full time while taking 2 or 3 online classes a semester. I feel like most of my marriage was a lie and am in need of a support group. Unfortunately the support groups I have found don't offer childcare, which makes it hard for me to attend. I live with my parents and they don't want to regularly watch my son who is 2 1/2 now and that also means I can't have a sitter come into the home to watch him either.
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