I thought by 3 months I would be over this guy, they say it takes 1/2 the time you went out but I'm still not over him. I'm carrying around these feelings for him that won't go away. I still feel he was right for me. But there is no going backwards. I'm still not divorced yet and neither is he. We are both in the limbo process of divorce and it's aweful doing this waiting. When will it end. I feel like he's this major anchor that I want to cling to because he's safe, a real man, responsible, handsome, caring but just not into me or "ready" for me. I'm mad at myself for letting him slip back into my life as a "buddy". He just wants to be friends with me and I can't do it. I've never been friends with any past lovers and I'm not any more capable of doing it now. What can I do? I find I want to seaver the relationship once and for all but then I just can't do it. I cannot let go, why? I feel him pulling me back in with just emails and phone calls, he's not flirting or anything like that, it's all me doing the hoping and wanting. What can I do, I feel so pathetic.
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