Hi, I just found this site today, and already it seems to be a lot of help. I'm new to the whole online support thing, but I'm 25 and the first one in my circle of friends to go through a seperation. My stbx and I have been together for 8 years, married 5. We have 3 amazing children! He's in the military, and I was a stay at home mom for our whole marrige. I don't really want to hash out all the history, I'm way to emotional to keep doing that. He came home from work 2 months ago, said he was done in our marrige, and I should move home with our kids. Now, he's deploying. I'm having such a hard time dealing with the fact that our marrige is over, (yes I have tried to hold on, but he's stubborn and won't even talk about recconciliation), I'm going to be a single mother, and he's going to be in a war zone. How to I let go, and keep my kids connected to him? I know when he does return he'll want to be a parent, and I want him to be. Things are just so confusing!! I hope to find support and a place to vent here. Thanks!
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