I would like to know how people treat their parents or other people they care for who wet thier bed.I was a bedwetter until I was SIXTEEN YEARS OLD!!!!!!The humiliation I suffered from friends and family was VERY TRAUMATIC.I had to wear cloth diapers,rubber pants,rubber sheets,alarm clock,no fluids of any kind after 5 PM,doing my own laundry,on all sorts of meds for it,shrinks,therapy,eegs,ekgs,blood tests,waking me up,making deals with me if I didn't wet for a certain amount of time I would get a reward.In the end everyone agreed I was A VERY HEAVY DEEP SLEEPER AND WOULD EVENTUALY GROW OUT OF IT WHEN MY MIND AND BODY DECIDED TO.NOTHING ANYONE ELSE DID WAS GOING TO HELP. Has Anyone ever stoppped to think about what you are doing to your child?The stress and humiliation you are putting on your child?It was like I was being belittled all the time for something I HAD NO CONTROL OVER.I wasn't acting like a baby.So why was I being treated like one?I HAD NO CONTROL OVER IT!!!!IT JUST HAPPENED!!!!!Let your kids body decide!!!THEY WILL GROW OUT OF IT!!!!Then when they get OLD,they will do it again!!!SO WILL YOU!!!!!!
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