My step son is 8 and hasn't seen his biological mom in 5 years, even then it was only 3 short visits and before that she hadn't seen him since she abandoned him at 11 months old. He has a lot of delays and is immature for his age, he doesn't understand social/emotional stuff for his age level. He is starting to ask question about his mom, we do not know where she is, legally she can see him once a week supervised. She hasn't even tried to see him. He wants to see her, and is asking if he can live with her, saying he know she misses him and has a room for him........ we know that she has had 3 kids since she left him............ what can we say that won't hurt him or degrade her????????????????
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