My boys were influenced by the other kids at school. I think it is interesting that you asked the homeschool question with this one. My kids knew to go to the potty at school. My typical one trained right away when he switch schools and the teacher had zero tolerance for pull-ups. My asd kid had a summer school teacher with a timer who was really persistant, but then he went back to the public school and he had an accident and he refuses to wear underwear now, only pull-ups.

My son is 5 years old and I am going through the same thing. I went to my neuro-developmental and we came up with the plan to have Sean do a poopy in his pull-up in the bathroom and then empty into the toilet. One step closer to the toilet. Like your son Sean will pee in the toilet but that is it and that was a struggle. Good luck we both need it. Denise

My son, Gaven was just turning five when he trained. It only took two weeks. No accidents of any kind,not even at bedtime. I never bought a pullup. He was ready. The best thing you can do is to not push. My typical son trained the same way. Never an accident of any kind. He was almost three. Neither child has ever wet the bed. Our problem is having to remind Gaven to wash his hands. Sometimes he makes a mess while cleaning himself. He is twelve now. The easy things are hard for him, and the hard things come more easily. It can drive you crazy.

im doing this as well with my 11 year old.. he was not ready before but now he gets it and he is doing pretty good. we have our accidents. Thank GOD for my carpet shampooer.
I think if he will go on the toliet, then maybe it is time to never use a pull up again/ im pretty much at that stage too. Steven will hold it till we get to the toliet. and thats every 30 mins.!

steven doesnt tell me yet either. so..... we are working on that too.