Okay here is an odd one for you. My son is 11. He likes a girl. Before ya all go well at least he likes someone...I don't think that is it. He is OBSESSED with this girl. To the point that the school counselor has been brought in and all this stuff. I don't think he "likes" her. You know those fixations that our kids usually have on trains, cars, blocks, cable channels and other weird things...well I think nick's current "autism fixation" is this girl. I think he thinks of people like objects in a way if you know what I mean. The problem is he doesn't get it. I can't get him to stop talking about this girl or to her. Apparently she is uncomfortable and told him that he was sexually harrasing her just by saying her name (she is also in special ed)...and the counselor told him he needs to just view her as a friend. and emailed me to talk to him. UM HELLO>...I have. I told him girls don't like this and that...told him to leave her alone. It is no fun for me because when she tells him she hates him or wants to kill him or anything else that happens at school he screams at me...So I want him over this as much as the next guy. I guess he automatically went off on his speil that he was gonna be arrested and go to juvie etc... I just don't know what to tell these teachers...I don't know what to do with nick. I can't control his fixations. I mean it was fine when it was ABC blocks, Tv Call numbers and space...he went from pokemon to this girl. And then you got the other ED boys telling him to kidnap her and sleep with her...I mean shit. I swear I am about to take him out of school before he gets kicked out. I am at my wits end on this problem. For the first time I have no clue...lol. There is no picture chart for this...no FAQ about this. Dang autism and puberty.
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