teacher sent note home that adam whined all day and even used his pencil and made a stabbing motion at her hand that landed him into timeout. now i know why adam whines, the enviroment of constant loud noise and whinning from the pre-schoolers and the teacher constantly pushing him to do his class work without taking in consideration that he has autism and needs to be taught accordingly, he gets very overwhelmed. when he is overwhelmed he starts whinning, she sarts pushing, he whines more and she pshes more, and then the "stabbing motion with pencil at her hand" is him getting desperate to make her understand he is overwhelmed. so, of course she 'documented' the stabbing motion at her hand in the log book that is sent home everyday, and i need some suggestions of what the teachers do for your kids when they are overwhelmed to send to her when i write her a letter explaining that when adam whines he is overwhelmed and if he got aggressive then he has beenn pushed way too hard while he was overwhelmed instead of some kind of way to let him calm himself and get back to his school work. i already know that if she were to provide him with a quiet area to calm himself he would settle down fast, but i want to give her several tried and true things that are used in schools across the country (this will be my documentation that he needs BIP in IEP) she is doing this to try and be able to prove adam would be disruptive in general ed, but she just started sending us these detailed notes this past week after hubby told her he would not sign anything that puts him back in her class next yr, but actually she is documenting that she refuses to accomodate adams need to have a plan to help him calm down under this undesirable classroom enviroment. instead she pushes him until he breaks and puts him in time out and one day last week she made him stay in class and do class work while the other kids went to recess because of the same kind of situation. so anyways, everyone give me some fire power to shoot right back at her and request that she uses these suggestions as intervention instead of punishing him for having autism. thanks!
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