Adam came home after spending the night with his mom and half sister and told me 'adam kiss mimi's pee-pee' i asked him where he heard that he he clamed up so i did not persue it. his sister who is 9 yrs old stayed with us for 4 days, we did let them sleep together on the pull out sofa. i did not see or sense any problems. adam has slowly started regressing all week. each day getting a little worse but manageable. to do all hell broke loose. adam had a very bad day at school. when he got home (i was at work) his dad said he went into full blown meltdown, something he has not donw in about 2 months, and during the meltdown he kept kissing his dolls between the legs saying 'adam kiss baby dolls pee-pee' and crying for his mommy. we ask him where he heard that and he will say mommy and then he will say katie and he even said mimi once! i have no clue what is going on I have never ever said such a thing to any child! but it is bad people and i have to find a way to stop this behavior. i dont know what brought this on. if any of you have any thoughts or experience with this kind of behavior please advise me. i have 2 grand daughters that i can not expose this kind of behavior to. adam does not deserve this he has done so well, even with the friday evening visits with his mom but the over nighter has really screwed with his head and we do not know what to do. his dad wants to give him more meds. i say no. we can not give him extra meds because his moms actions screw with his head. i say she changes her ways. but anyways, this pee-pee thing has really thrown me for a loop and i am at a lose i have tried everything i tell him how bad it is for someone to do and say that and he just does it more. i tell him good boys dont do that i tell him he will get a spanking nothing has worked. all of you should see this he is out of control and he has had his meds like he always gets them.
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