i am so mad right now. adam spent thursday night with nanny and then saturday night with egg donor. he came home friday afternoon and had wet his pants at nannies, i let that go, i should not have because HE CAN GO TO THE POTTY HIMSELF NO HELP! but ofcourse dad and nanny have every excuse in the world for him. there is no excuse. adam wears elastic waist pants and underwear for easy up and down. he never wets himself or has bms on himself either. he goes to nannies and wets himself. he goes to egg donors and comes home wetting himself. i just took him to the potty, he refused to pull his pants down. i did it for him, told him to pull his underwear down and go potty, i left the bathroom, he came out soaked! he stood there and wet himself because i didnt pull his underwear down for him! i have not done that for him him 8 months or more! UGH!!!!!! i am ready to blow! i am going to go off on nanny, egg donor AND dad, because i know dad does it for him if i am not within eyesight and i am fucking tired of it! the attitude is they will do it for them because they only do it sometimes, they do not deal with him fulltime and so they do not care becaause out of sight out of mind! AUGH!!!!!