Well....we returned from the 1st visit to a psyc. therapist...uhhhhhh all the more to remind me....WHY THE HELL I DRIVE SOOOOOO FAR....TO GET Alex good doctors! Ok......so we were in there less tan 3 minutes.......before this man was telling me that my son was defiant...DUHHHHHHHHHHHH! Ok....so I went on to tell him his dx's of ASD, MR, OCD, ODD....THE IDIOT..WAS.."WOA....WHAT ARE THESE ABBREVIATIONS MEAN?" OMG.......ARE YA KIDDING ME? Ok......so he basically tells me that I am a worthless mother, and that I will see that if I don't get him "UNDER MY CONTROL" that he will be in Jail by the time he is an adult! DUH! OK.....I AM SO PISSED OFF! I cannot believe...the idiot.....didn't even get to know us as a family before he passed judgement! Ohhhhhh and a dx....on the 1st visit! hahaha.....nope..well he was pissed off because Alex was refusing to remove his ear phones to his MP3 player....ok.....Alex has his quirks.....lol...he likes to record ppl on his MP3 player! I was asking Alex to take off the ear phones and the therapist didn't give me the chance to be mom.....told me that when Alex goes to work when he is older he will have a major problem in sustaning and keeping a job! ROFLO.......IAMO......HELL YEAH.....I LAUGHED MY ASS OFF! I told him...."are ya kidding me? he's not going anywhere!" OMG.....The heffer was .."Oh yeah he can do something in life , afterall he can talk!' OMG....Yeah.......so the parrot talks.......uh-huh..ok.....tell me how in the hell....ppl are gonna manage his behavior? Ok....I am not saying that all / none of our kiddo's will not be able to have a job , family, etc...but....Alex is 14 and reality....well.....I have accepted....I wanted to give this therapist a chance, he did have some good points, as far as Alex not listening and interupting me constantly....I do get my own son....its just that when Alex did finally begin to talk with the therapist and he began to cry......I stopped dead in my tracks....looking at my son......feeling his bottled pain....then the therapist went on to say "Ya see, this is exactly what I am talking about, you give him your undevided attention and he feeds off of this!" SOOOOOO WHAT DID I SAY , " OHHHHHHHH ASSHOLE......LET ME TELL YA......THIS KIDDO RARELY EXPRESSES HIMSELF LIKE THIS....AND THIS IS PROGRESS......YOU SEE IT YOUR WAY..AND I KNOW MY SON......THE FACT THAT HE SELF-EXPRESSED ON A 1ST VISIT IS AMAZING!" So he stands up...uhhhhhh like he was constantly looking at the clock the entire time as it was....and informs me that he can't help us and I was like "YA THINK! YA ARE TOO JUDGEMENTAL AND TO PPL YA DON'T EVEN GET TO KNOW......OBTW...YA DON'T EVEN KNOW ABBREVIATIONS FOR DX'S!" ADIOS M/F ER!" Ok.....I feel soooooooo damned much better! Badt thing is....Alex and I cried all the way home and it was just another reminder of ppl who are supposed to help......make a bad situation WORSE!
Posts You May Be Interested In
Banyak sekali orang yang berhubungan dengan mereka karena mereka memiliki makna atau masalah dari hubungan dengan lawan jenisnya, yaitu seperti pacar, hidup bersama, tunangan, istri / suami. Semakin sering mereka mengalami kesulitan dan membuat mereka mengalami gangguan mental.Nah, agar tidak terjadi dan terulang untuk masa mendatang, carilah pasangan hidup yang sesuai dengan karakter kamu mau....
My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday and blocked all methods of communication with her because she knows she "won't be able to stay away". I know she still loves me and I need to get her back. The problem is she lives in Vancouver and I live in NYC and I haven't worked in 6 months because of a church music project that required for me to be away from home for that amount of time. My savings...