my boyfriend has aspergers and i'm having a really hard time dealing with it. he can't express his feelings ever or tell me that he loves me and it's very painful. if i cry, he just stares at me with a blank look on his face like he has no idea what i'm doing or feeling. it's making me feel insecure and lonely, and that's not like me to feel those kind of things. if anyone has any advice for me, please help. i don't want this relationship to end because i can't have my feelings validated. that's what has happened to him in his past relationships and i feel so bad for him, especially since he didn't know about his aspergers until recently. i'm hoping since we know about his aspergers now, we can try to understand it, but i still can't help feeling so alone and distant from him all the time. i'm very glad that there are things like this website out there and i'm hoping someone can share their experiences with me and hopefully help me to understand all of this better. thanks for listening.
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