
Anxiety Support Group
Anxiety is a physical condition marked by intense and persistent feelings of distress, fear, angst or dread. General anxiety caused by routine day-to-day stresses usually passes quickly and is experienced by almost everyone at one time or another. However, such feelings that linger over time and are very difficult to cope with, and which lack a clear cause, may indicate...

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Hello
I've started to feel a little bit better anxiety wise, I think my pills are kicking in a bit now so it's making life a bit easier.
But I can't stop worrying about my husband. Things have improved a bit over the last week between us but now I can't stop worrying about him. So much so that I'm getting very anxious and even had a panic attack because I was worrying about him so much.
He's having a tough time with work, he's a self-employed plumber. Over the last year or so he has retrained to do this and earlier this year set up his business. Now he's not haping doing it. He's very tired, complains about it all the time, worries about money etc. I feel I should be helping but there's nothing I can do and yet I can't switch off from worrying about him.
It's almost as if I feel responsible for his unhappiness. He has told me that even if I wasn't here he would have to be working and he isn't doing it just because of me but worrying about him is just whirling round my head making me tense and anxious.
Any suggestions please?
I've started to feel a little bit better anxiety wise, I think my pills are kicking in a bit now so it's making life a bit easier.
But I can't stop worrying about my husband. Things have improved a bit over the last week between us but now I can't stop worrying about him. So much so that I'm getting very anxious and even had a panic attack because I was worrying about him so much.
He's having a tough time with work, he's a self-employed plumber. Over the last year or so he has retrained to do this and earlier this year set up his business. Now he's not haping doing it. He's very tired, complains about it all the time, worries about money etc. I feel I should be helping but there's nothing I can do and yet I can't switch off from worrying about him.
It's almost as if I feel responsible for his unhappiness. He has told me that even if I wasn't here he would have to be working and he isn't doing it just because of me but worrying about him is just whirling round my head making me tense and anxious.
Any suggestions please?
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