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This is CRAZY! I moved in with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago. He has been really great with it. It was partly his idea. He has been telling me to put his address on all of my information things. We get along great, but his two roomates (husband and wife) are full of drama about it. The wife is very crazy, and she is trying her best to make it so that I can't stay there. She hates me, but she is being really sneaky about it. Last night I believe that she loaded the gun that her husband keeps in his room in order to get him mad at me and kick me out. He changed the locks today. He even told me that I was not allowed in the house while my boyfriend is not there. I am looking for an apartment that I can have by myself for right now. I would move back with my parents, but I just got a new job and they live about two hours away. I just went to my first day of work today. The wife works there too, so I have to deal with her while I am there. She worked tonight, but she didn't even look my way. She acted like I wasn't even there. I don't know what her problem is. I wish I did, but I don't. And what is worse is that I feel like my boyfriend is not defending me the way that he should.
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wow, that is hard. Would your boyfriend agree to move out and share an appartment with you, just the two of you? And maybe you should find another job, if she is doing that to keep you from the house she will do more to keep you from the work place as well, give her time.
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This is a toughy. There would be a part of me that would want to stay just to be spiteful and make them miserable but all of the bullshit surrounding this would also make me want to run and even leave the boyfriend behind too.
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I think for your sanity and safety it was smart of you to get an apartment on your own. I think your boyfriend should have defended you, or at least find out what the issues were with other couple--I think it would have been diseasterous anyway and I don't think the boyfriend should have invited you to move into that apartment--I think he should have suggested you move into a different one together. I wouldn't move to fast with boyfriend after this, I would play it safe and keep him at arms length at least until you are comfortable that he has your best interest.
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WOW. I think you should or would be much better off out on your own. Even if you had to get a studio apt or something. Might be small, but it would be all yours. Take your time with this BF. He obviously does not care enough about you to have your back....what does that say to you? Should be volumes. If I were you, I would have his name removed from things that were yours to begin with. TAKE IT SLOW AND EASY.....SLOWER would be the best thing. I dont get this woman. WHY (since she is married) Does she feel so threatened by you!!! Hmmm. She sounds like a whack-o! Be careful and keep your eyes and ears open and do not turn your back for one minute!
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I agree with gatekeeper have his name removed from whatever was yours to begin with.
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I agree you would be much better on your own.
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