I should probably not act on my attraction to this since we wrok together and I am anxious enough and don't need further complications. What is bothering me now is I am questioning my judgement. I thought this guy was nice. He is quite anxious and he does work hard. However, people who work in his department have said he can get so anxious that he will lose his temper. He has actually made a few people cry. He was spoken to about it and has gotten better I guess. But I wonder if he gets away with it somewhat because he is extremely attractive and it is a femall dominated field- he is also very bright and good at his job. A lot of people say that they think he is a decent guy but struggles so much with anxiety that he ends up lashing out. But if someone's anxiety supercedes their empathy, I have to wonder if they are a decent person. I am anxious and sometimes I get a little short tempered as a result of it but I have never made someone cry or lashed out at someone severely about it. I am hardest on myself. Does it seem like this guy is just not all that nice and the fact that he is good looking, everyone is making excuses for me including myself? Just advice from other people with anxiety and how it had affected them in the work place. Thanks.