I dont know what to do. My wife doesnt want to move with me to ca even though it has been the plan for months. We are three weeks from the move date too! Her grandmother is backing her up just because she can't stand letting my son go because she is too attached. But I am the father! Doesnt my opinion matter? I am hurting so bad. She told me that I am bringing her down with my anxiety... and that if I go by myself it will help me get better faster! Which is not going to help anything. All I am going to be doing is be thinking about my son and her too much. I told her that it would be too painful and that if she didnt come, then it would most likely be over. Because if she is not willing to stand by my side, then why be with her? It hurts, because I wont get to see my son that often! I am so upset and I dont know what to do! I wish I could take custody of my son, but thats not going to happen! I hate this! Now I hate her family even more and I am all alone in this state! Everyone is against me!
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