I have been with boyfriend for about 4 years. His mother and I got along really good at first. I even thought of her as a mom more than I did my own. Then I started noticing how much a mommas boy he was, which is good because if a man treats his mom good then he is more than likely to treat you right also. But, recently I can't stand her. Him and I just had our first child together and she seems like she is so jealous of him and then she turns it around and says that I am jealous that he is so close to her. Which I am not. I think it's great. But, she can't just seem to understand that he has his own family and has for a while now. Her husband and other son moved to Washington state and it's like she depends on Derek for everything. Like he is responsible for her now that Frank is gone. (he has been gone for two years) I feel like since she does not like me because she thinks that I took her baby away from her that she is going to have a big influence on Derek and persuade him to not be with me. Am I just being silly about it all or do I need to sit her down and talk to her about it, again? If I do how do I put it nicely that she needs to give us space so we can work on having our own family? Because, what we talked about before just did not get the job done.