I love my family so much, but they depend on me way to much! Because I have coped with my illness fairly well, my family seem to think I can cope with nething and each of them come to me all the time to off load their problems on to me and ask for my advice. I wana b there for them as much as I can, but I have my own issues to deal with n find that my family are exhausting me mentally. How can I be more assertive without my family getting offended?
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