My therapist told me that my fiancee could be causing alot of my anxiety...she said because he wont "up and move" with me to PA he's immature and could be causing an inner conflict about whether i want to be with him or not. This sounds crazy to me. We've been together 4 1/2 years and i love him to death. We are getting married in July. She said she does not think I'm ready to marry him and afraid to admit, yeah ill admit im nervous and scared but who isnt before the big day! It's a life changing event!! But, i dont think just because he wont move doesnt make him immature or a bad person? Any thoughts on this reasoning.
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