I am Christian, and believe in the Christian bible. I grew up like that ... and while I am very relaxed about it, I don't go to church, and I am open to things like science and historical discoveries, etc ... I cannot let go of the belief that in order to get to heaven, you have to believe that Jesus dies for our sins and ask for His forgiveness. (If you disagree, I hold nothing against you, but please don't respond negatively). Anyway ... I am so so so afraid that my husband doesn't believe and will go to hell when he dies. I know that might sound blunt and harsh, but it's what I believe ... and while I hope more than anything that it's not true ... it hurts me so much I don't know what to do. I have cried my eyes out telling him how I feel about it. He has said he believes it, but I just can't feel settles about it ... I feel so certain that he only "believes" because I got so upset (even though he promises he really does) ... but if it's only because it upsets me, then I feel it doesn't count and won't save him ... I can't get over this. It hurts my heart :-(
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