When I go into my other groups, I can really see the changes in me. I look at the posts on the other groups and most of them are people complaining about one thing or another. Now, I do understand that there are serious issues with each of our other problems, but, it seems like everyone whines and complains instead of asking for serious advice. I know that I was the same way and it shows me just how far I've come. I do answer some of the posts when I think I have something relevant to add. But, I much prefer to come to this group! Seems to me that the people here are more serious in looking for help and less likely to whine about their problems.