My husband (40) is angry at the world. Blames everyone for everything wrong in his life. I am mostly to blame cuz I am bipolar and all my meds make me so tired that it just pisses him off. He abuses me physically and mentally nearly daily. We went to therapy today and he threw a clipboard at me and said fuck you and walked out. He has put me through complete and total hell, and now he is starting up with the children (4 and 1). He said he resents them because he has to take care of them and of course he says he has to take care of me all the time. I sleep in cuz i don't sleep so he gets up with the kids around 9 or 10 most mornings and I am up by 11 or 12 at the latest, yet he swares he takes care of them ALLL day and he can never get anything done cuz I am sleeping. I say.. get the hell out of bed by 7 and go do something and I will HAVE to get up with the kids. We started trading off every other day.. but he still bitches that he never gets to sleep.. he went to bed at 8 tonight.. took a nap yesterday.. but HE never gets to sleep... My therapist said she can see him hurting me badly and doesn't think I am safe. I am trying to get him into the hospital because he is just not thinking straight and doesn't care if the kids are there and tells them he wants me to go away forever in front of them. What do I do???? He is obviously in mental despair...but jesus, how can I stay and help him when he is abusing me and my children in this manner??
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