My husband and i just bought a house and have not moved in yet we are staying in an apartment until our items are delivered. My husband was away all week on a business trip and it snowed. We got about a foot. I have two small children that i can't leave alone in an empty house for more then a few minutes so I tried to do as much shoveling as i could. I called my hubby to ask if i could have someone come and do it for me. He said no because we didn't have the money. He just got home this evening and spent about 30 minutes with our kids (remember the kids have not seen him since last Sunday) then left to finish our driveway it is now 1.5 hours later, the kids are in bed, and i called to see how it was going he said he still has 2 or more hours of work left and if he does not get it done the mover will probably refuse delivery. I told him that we should have just paid to have it done. He comes back with "well next time i won't go away on a business trip when it snows. That way this will get done" Im sorry i tried to shovel but when you have nowhere to put two small kids to keep them safe what was i supposed to do? I just want to scream! Im so mad how dare he assume that I just chose not to shovel the driveway. I did the best i could with the equipment and situation i was in. if we were living in the house i could have shoveled during my kids naptime or in the evening after i put them to bed when i know they will be safe. I just want to scream!!! I'm I wrong for being anger?
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