I'm new to all of this but here goes. MY husband has a Meth problem. I've been with him for 5yrs now, We've been married for 3. He cleans up and then goes back to it. It never fails. This past christmas was the worst. We had been seperated since april, before I had my youngest son. He was doin really good. He had stayed clean and gotten a really great job. He was actually tring this time. His new job required him to be gone out of town for 6wks at a time. That was the main reason he was staying clean. You see we live in a bad area for meth. It has over run the county. Well he come home for his break and wiped out the bank account before he ever came home. That was my first sign. But I didn't want to see it. Then one day at work my boss tells me that something got into my trash and it was scattered. So she let me leave to go clean it up before the the trash ran. Well when I got home I found my husband laying on the couch in another world, I lost it I called his dad. He came over to help me out. Before he got there I found a gram of meth on the table. My husband was sp out of that he told me it was sugar and to try it. My father in law could not find it. I later found it the christmas tree. He admidt he need help after that. But never followed through with it. I've tried everthing to help him. I love him so much. I ve dealt with this for so long that I felt abloigated to help him. Now I'm tired of tring to help him and he dosent want it. I've got two boys to take care of. And he dosen't help out at all. Half the time hes not even around. He'll use the boys for excuses. I'm just tired of it. We are still seperated because I can't trusst him around our boys. That and I'm scared I might lose them because of his actions. My family and his all tell me to just divorce him and be done. That he dosen't want help. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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