I was in my "avoidance" mode this afternoon so I went to the local coffee shop (Peets - not Starbucks for those of you who know the difference)... So, I am sitting, enjoying my latte and start talking w/ 2 men. We all really start REALLY talking, I admit that I am in AA, one of them says he is a criminal, etc - you get the idea... So, at one point I say, well, my therpaist says" and continue on w/ that train of thought. And the guy is like - "what do you really think of therapists?" I said how I felt - I think it can be helpful but its a business just like anything else, and that there are good ones and bad ones... so the guy proceeds to tell me that he indeed is therapist - and starts hitting on me. so weird. I had to quickly excuse myself. But I thought to myslef: what the hell kind of therapist is that?? It totally ruined my view of the field of psychotherapy at large. Enough said. - P
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