So how have many out there been able to compllete step 9,when the people withwhom you want to amend are hypicrics.Case in point:I have been 54 days sober and love it.I went to my ladies home last night,waited fro her to get back from al-anon.While waiting for her the mooseface sister of hers shows up and starts cuusing me out againlike they always have.I did not say anything to her as it is a waste of time on her.See my ladies bro-inlaw(sis hubby)is a major trouble making alcoholic.I currently have assault charges filed on him because of this.It just seems that I am the problem in this family,I have done great on the other steps and this 1 for the most part.But I will not give in to her family when I am treated like this.My girl friend goes to al-anon and I to aa.But when these people come over and start thier crap cussing me and assaulting me,my lady does not do what should be done.After all it is my ladies home make the shitheads leave when thier mouth over powers thier body.I am at my wits end,I have sais to my lady that I would be there for her as she has come through a tough time lately.But I cannot continue to take this shit from these people and her not put them in thier place.there is much more to this story of my lady and I when it comes to working this step.I say to myself that if this is to continue and not solved by putting me after this trash family then something has to change.I absolutely will not let this crap push me to drinking again,I will walk away from her and everyone in her family.My sobriety is my priority it is more important for me as it has given me a sane head now.So what do I do with this shithead family problem?Sorry for long rant.
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