ok ya'll what about the spouses of the alcoholics??? what happens when they get over there 100 day mark? when you met that person they were an alcohlic and things were different and now that they are sober things are seriously different... how do you get used to that?? how do you deal with issues when you feel that they are so consumed with themselves... yet the depression for them is all to consuming as well.... i feel that i am in this marriage for the long haul but is it gonna get better?? imean to those of you who have been sober for years does the communication ever get better or come back??? please help me understand some of this stuff and if you can relate please add your comments... thanks for letting me vent...
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