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Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.

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ok ya'll what about the spouses of the alcoholics??? what happens when they get over there 100 day mark? when you met that person they were an alcohlic and things were different and now that they are sober things are seriously different... how do you get used to that?? how do you deal with issues when you feel that they are so consumed with themselves... yet the depression for them is all to consuming as well.... i feel that i am in this marriage for the long haul but is it gonna get better?? imean to those of you who have been sober for years does the communication ever get better or come back??? please help me understand some of this stuff and if you can relate please add your comments... thanks for letting me vent...
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100 days, 100 very early days, a little over 3 months.
If your partner drank a lot, then he is going through huge adjustments, and he may also be feeling lots of remorse from his past.
I will say that it took a good year for me to get back to any sort of normality (AS I NEVER KNEW IT), even now at 2 years my outlook on life keeps changing in a positive way.
When I first became sober, I was obsessed with staying sober, I had to be, now it does not take so much of my time, but to stay sober I must give it some of my time, this after all is a life long thing, we do not find miracle cures, we have to keep firmly in our recovery or we may lose it.
Will it get any better, I can only tell you from my own experieces it has, so you will have to try and make what you can from that.
Another thing that might be good for you is Al Anon, but its something that I know very little about, and I would therefore others advise you on this.
Seems like you have been on a bit of a Rollercoaster, try and hang on, it may turn out top be the best ride of your life, I do hope so
Trickey
www.alanon.org
God Bless
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