Letting Go

Letting does not mean to stop caring;
it means I can't do it for someone else.

Letting go is not to cut myself off;
it's the realization I can't control another.

Letting go is not to enable;
but to allow learning from natural consequences.

Letting go is to admit powerlessness;
which means the outcome is not in my hands.

Letting go is not to try to change or blame another;
it's to make the most of myself.

Letting go is not to care for;
but to care about.

Letting go is not to fix;
but to be supportive.

It's not to judge but to allow another to be a human being.

Letting go is not to be in the middle arranging the outcome;
but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

Letting go is not to be protective;
it's to permit another to face reality.

Letting go is not to deny;
but to accept.

Letting go is not to nag, scold or argue;
but instead to search out my own short comings and correct them.

Letting go is not to adjust everything to my own desires;
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

Letting go is not to critisize and regulate anybody;
but to try to become what I dream I can be.

Letting go is not to regret the past;
but to grow and live for the future.

Letting go is to fear less and live more.