I have had this female Sponsor now for over 3yrs. Got her when I moved here and didn't know much about her and her life. Well I got to know her very well and I have really not seen any changes for the good. I shouldn't put her down but lately something is telling me she's sick and really needs some help and stay away from her. I don't even call her anymore she calls me and tells me what's going on in her life.For the latest was her Husband tried to kill himself again. Yea, shot himself in the head luckily survived it. He drinks at home and steals her pills and says ''the dog ate them.'' She cuts others down and talks about ppl. and she probably talks about me. I mentioned to her yesterday that I was finding alot of help on this site and I was having a problem with the 3rd step and someone explained what they thought could be very helpful to me and she said to tell that person he doesn't know what he's talking about!!!She snapped at me too yesterday and well I don't need this from anyone as I am trying to work this as best as I can and I have given her 3yrs. now and I don't think I want this negativity in my life anymore, maybe it was alright 3yrs. ago but it's getting old here. I have told her to get away from her husband and that he needs help but she don't listen to me. I told her alot of good advice but I bet she never took it. So people do you agree do you think I need a change or what? ALSO I TOLD HER BEFORE IN A POLITE WAY BUT SHE KEEPS CALLING AND SHE HAS A MEMORY PROBLEM I BELIEVE TOO.
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