Being the spouse of an active alcoholic, I am trying to "let go and take care of myself". I am starting to understand that the drinking is HIS problem ,not mine. I feel abit relieved by not worrying about him so much . I have not nagged him about this drinking. So he continues to drink, but not in front of me. I guess my question is , Am I anabling him by not saying anything?? This is so confusing to me ...Please help..
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