Hi, I have been a DS member for 6 months, and really enjoy and learn from all of you! I am 21 months sober with the help of AA and DS. My husband is a binge drinker - usually with friends/brothers. Time and again he makes promises (not to come home drunk, not to drive drunk, to be home at a reasonable time etc), only to break the promises. His anger after drinking has been getting progressively worse. He exploded at me tonight after coming home on time, but drunk, from the Raven's game. He tries to put the blame for his anger on me, but I know I don't deserve it. I don't know what to do. We have tried couples counseling, but he does not follow through on what he says there. We have 3 children, and I am not sure how to know when to throw in the towel. He is a totally different person when drinking. With my battle with alcohol, I know that all of the stress is not healthy for me or the kids. Anyone relate to this situation?
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