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I'm worried about my mum

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I am sorry to bother you guys...I find this really hard to type and it hurts a lot. I have only just noticed it, but my mum drinks...A LOT! I was wondering how many glasses a night is too much?? She has wine and then goes a little odd and I don't like it and I have to make sure she is sleeping before I sleep. It worrys me and somtimes she drives me to places over the limet. She denies having more than about two though.
It scares me and I am so worried about her.
Jules xx
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She may be an alcoholic and is probably in denial. DO NOT ride with her if you suspect she's been drinking. You could be hurt or killed. And it's perfectly understandable that it hurts and scares you. I am a recovering alcoholic and have hurt and scared my daughters, and I deeply regret that. Am tryin g to make amends daily, but am staying sober. Good luck to you, dear. XOXO
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it must be very hard for you, Please dont drive with her, it is putting both of you at risk, i hope you can find peace, because everyone reacts differently to alcohol, it is hard to give advice on what to do in the situation, im so sorry, if you would like to chat feel free to email me. take care. x
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You can't stop someone else from drinking but you can seek out alanon, also don't obsess on her cause it will just make you sick. You have to accept that she drink's, also let her know it scares you, about her drinking.
ktharp423
ktharp423
I'm so sorry to hear that sweetie, have you tried Alanon or Alateen? I agree that you should try not to ride with her.
Does she get defensive when you confront her? You indicated that she denies how much she drinks, but I'm wondering if she resents your inquiry. My mother always did, to the point where I knew if I expressed concern or even joked about it I'd pay dearly for at least a week.
Is your father around? Do you have a family member whom your comfortable discussing this with? An aunt, uncle, older cousin, grandparent? I hope you're not alone in this.
(((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))
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