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Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.

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My sobriety is tenuous to say the least. So is my financial situation. So anyway I have a guy that has worked for me for years. I have let him live at my studio and I have provided for him. He has also lived in my house for the past year. Now that I am in a 1 BR apt. and flat broke I cannot carry him any longer. The thread will break. He expects me to take care of him. I just can't. He is the most loyal and trustworthy man I know...30 yrs worth. But it's time to make him leave and care for himself. I gave him the opportunity to pitch in on a two BR apt but he didn't want the responsibilty. So I either cut him loose and deal with the guilt or let him (and his dog) hang here with me and my two cats until I kill him. Damned if I do and damned if I don't.
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I bet if you put that dress on and started flirting with him, you wouldn't have to even ask him to leave! Also mention that you know of a fence the two of you could visit. (o;
Also you might be doing him a favour though it might not be obvious now. While you take all the responsibility and carry him he has no incentive to do things for himself whereas if you cut him loose it might be the push he needs to get his sh*t together.
Sometimes things that seem harsh are the most loving things we can do.
Take care of yourself.
Big ol southern hugs to you hon