My sobriety is tenuous to say the least. So is my financial situation. So anyway I have a guy that has worked for me for years. I have let him live at my studio and I have provided for him. He has also lived in my house for the past year. Now that I am in a 1 BR apt. and flat broke I cannot carry him any longer. The thread will break. He expects me to take care of him. I just can't. He is the most loyal and trustworthy man I know...30 yrs worth. But it's time to make him leave and care for himself. I gave him the opportunity to pitch in on a two BR apt but he didn't want the responsibilty. So I either cut him loose and deal with the guilt or let him (and his dog) hang here with me and my two cats until I kill him. Damned if I do and damned if I don't.
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