My question seems so simple, but it obviously isn't? My husband just got of rehab on Saturday. The last few days he was in there, he started treating me differently. He began snapping at me when I asked questions and having very short conversations (not calling as frequently.) He began going to meetings every day, which I am fine with. However, the first day, he left at 4:00 p.m., telling me the meeting was at 5:00 pm, and he didn't come home until after 11:30 p.m.. The next night, he didn't get home until 12:30 p.m. Are these signs that he is using again? Or do I believe him that he is staying after the meeting and talking with people that were in rehab with him? He told me that he was told that he needed to do whatever he needed to do to keep sober. Then told me that he needed to shut me out to keep sober. Since then, he has continued to be short, angry, and distant. What can I do? I am going to my first Al-Anon meeting on Sunday and counseling on Tuesday. Any advice?
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