Grief for the loss of another close to me to alcohol. My ex and still friend, got hammered yesterday (well everyday) and hit another car head-on which in turn hit a motorcycle. Thank God no one was killed. He got 6 felony charges against him and is a mess. Talk about rock bottom. I feel so many things right now, anger, sadness, loss, fear. I just knew something was wrong when I drove by his house and he wasn't home and then called his phone to get his vm. I immediately came home and looked up the local police booking online and there he was- NOT smiling back at me. I have just passed my one year marker myself and that is part of the reason we broke up because I could quit and he couldn't. I feel like he has died and left me. I really hope this will help him in the long run but his life is just never going to be the same because of booze and no power against it. How sad.
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