I've been around Alcoholism and addiction my entire life. I've been to thousands' of AA meetings, Al-anon and while I was growing up Alateen. My husband, is in recovery and has been sober for 4 years, he's not been sober from his sexual addiction and pornography though, for two months, I can't help but believe he is still struggling with addictive behavior. Counseling for a year now-has not helped, in my opinion-they put him on Meds that are not helping either. He gets frustrated & more depressed because he can't perform like he use to. Said he's done his 4 and 5th step--He claimed his ex was always the aggressor-and this past weekend-while I tried to ask him a question-he got violent with me and my kids. I know I have to do what is right for me and maybe we're just not going to be able to remain married....but damn this friggen disease sux!! Any suggestions words of wisdom, other than "go to a meeting" would be helpful.
Thanks in advance
Thanks in advance
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