My ex is an alcoholic, I just got the strangest call from him tonight where he was yelling at me, swearing, calling me names, and would repeatedly hang up on me alternating that with telling me he still loves me. I told him to call his sponsor, he claims to be sober this evening, and talk to them about his feelings, and he told me his sponsor and the people at AA told him to get rid of me because I'm the reason he drinks. The reason he was upset is because he wants me to reconcile, or that's what I gathered and I won't/ am not interested in reconciling. I'm not mean to him or anything like that, I just don't see a future with him anymore. What is the proper way to handle this? Or do I just not answer the call? I don't understand all this anger towards me, we broke up forever ago.
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