I have been sober for 9 1/2 months and so very happy with my new way of life. Problem:I have receintly become very friendly with anoher women that I feel I have alot in common with. The last few times I have talked on the phone with her she has been drunk. I am not judging her at all, she can do as she wishes, but I am not comfortable talking with someone while thay are drunk. This has happened the last 4 times I have spoken with her. The first time ,I asked her (the next day) if she had been drinking, and she said yes.( I was glad she was honest) But she seems to do this every nite. She says things she does not remember and when I see her next day, she acts as if nothing ever happened. I dont care what she does in her free time, but I dont want to be a part of it. What do I say when I see her the next day and she is so normal again. Again, I really am not judging her in any way, I just dont want to be a part of her drinking problem. I am still working on keeping my self sober. I dont want to deal with anyone elses stuff. How do I handle this when I see her at work and she is all buddy buddy again? .
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