My ex, whom I am still friends with for some reason, really has me scared and I can't do anything. He got so drunk about a month ago and fell (doesn't remember) and broke three teeth, got 15 stitches in his mouth, broke his back, and messed up his knee real bad. The next day when he came to some he went to admit himself to a crisis unit, they made him go to the hospital to be checked out and then took him in for three days. He stayed sober for about three weeks while he had pain meds and now that the meds are gone he went back to drinking. He has already been hospitalized with pancreatitis and almost died. I don't think he is going to hit bottom till he dies and I can't stand watching it but I still care about him. I'm trying to distance myself from him but he seems to get worse then and I feel guilty. I know it's not my job or my responsibility but I still feel guilty. Should I ........???? I don't know.
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