Hello everyone, Im new here. I been with my alcoholic boyfriend for 22 years. He's been drinking since we met. Of course it has gotten worse over the years. He drinks everyday, when he can't get alcohol he is very depressd and sleeps alot. I love him, but Im so sick of this. I do understand alcoholism, Im in recovery myself. Im at the point to where I want to end this relationship. He lives off me, has no job, we haven't slept in the same room for years. It's just like I have a roommate. I want more for my life. He trys to be the boss without paying the cost. He's very strict on our kids and they don't respect him at all. He says he don't want to quit drinking. I would like to know if I should try a "formal" intervention or just move on with my life? Everyday is like walking on egg shells, it's very stressful for the whole family.
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