AlAnon One Day At A Time Community Group
This is a group for families and friends affected by someone elses drinking.
Well, I've just passed my anniversary date for not having any alcohol. And I have absolutely no desire to drink.
My husband's drinking has become like a run away train. I've tried every scenario to convince him he needs to stop.
I tried his health (doc has given him several warnings, near death experience); I've told him, that I'm left alone now raising his two teen age sons 15 & 17 who are both ADHD, plus dealing with a drunk on top of it. I've told him that i married him, not his sons.
I simply have said, you need to do something about your drinking....he said I'm working on it (this was yesterday),....I said you're working in the wrong direction. He's been drunk every night, 4 out of 5 past nights. I asked him to stay sober as this is exam week for his boys & I need a stable house while I tutor them in their math....they need hours of it. He was sober the next night, and drunk the past two nights.
I love my husband dearly, I love our home which he has renovated beautifully....it is such an elegante home.
I sleep on the couch because he snores soooo loud when he drinks, so I sleep on the couch every night. I have fibromyalgia, so I'm struggling trynig to get enough strength just to survive. I have nothing left to try to figure things out.
Or, I just really don't want to face what I have to do.....this will be the second marriage I left because of an alcoholic spouse.
I want to find a remote place in another part of the world.
HELP!!
My husband's drinking has become like a run away train. I've tried every scenario to convince him he needs to stop.
I tried his health (doc has given him several warnings, near death experience); I've told him, that I'm left alone now raising his two teen age sons 15 & 17 who are both ADHD, plus dealing with a drunk on top of it. I've told him that i married him, not his sons.
I simply have said, you need to do something about your drinking....he said I'm working on it (this was yesterday),....I said you're working in the wrong direction. He's been drunk every night, 4 out of 5 past nights. I asked him to stay sober as this is exam week for his boys & I need a stable house while I tutor them in their math....they need hours of it. He was sober the next night, and drunk the past two nights.
I love my husband dearly, I love our home which he has renovated beautifully....it is such an elegante home.
I sleep on the couch because he snores soooo loud when he drinks, so I sleep on the couch every night. I have fibromyalgia, so I'm struggling trynig to get enough strength just to survive. I have nothing left to try to figure things out.
Or, I just really don't want to face what I have to do.....this will be the second marriage I left because of an alcoholic spouse.
I want to find a remote place in another part of the world.
HELP!!
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
I could not influence, bribe or influence the alcoholic in my life.
I had to take care of myself. The greatest thing I did for myself was to go to and attend Al Anon. There you will get support.
Your sons could attend Alateen.
Blessings of Courage.