Any book I have read on this topic states that anyone with this disorder can never change. They don't have it because something in their life made them that way. They are born with it. Nobody matters but themselves. They ruin the confidence and the being of their children. 95% of their children suffer. People used to tell me that something bad must have happened to my mother, No, there is nothing that made her who she is, My grandmother gave birth to two narcissistic daughters. She wasn't a narcissist even if she is a rude person. The only way anyone can ever start to heal is that they have to walk away from that parent, If you tolerate them, they win. They still control every emotion and every horrible thought you have about yourself. I am not saying this because I am healed. I am far from it. I walked away though. She still hunts me down because she can't lose. I don't want her in my head. She doesn't deserve the space or my time. That is what I am trying to do and I think anyone out here who has anything to do with that person, you haven't taken the first step towards healing
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