Hello, I have been married to an adult child of an alcholic for 26 years. He is very difficult to talk to except on a very superficial level. Would people in this group have any suggestions on how to improve our relationship? Would I be allowed to attend an ACOA meeting as a spouse? Would attending ACOA meetings be helpful to me? He would not attend marriage counseling, and will not attend an ACOA meeting. He won't discuss this topic with me. He says he is fine. How can I communicate with him? Help!
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