Adoption Support Group

Adoption is the legal act of permanently placing a child with a parent or parents other than the birth parents. Whether you are looking to adopt, putting your child up for adoption, parenting an adopted child, or just thinking about it, this is the place to discuss.

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Problem! BOND WAS BROKEN!!!!

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I am living breathing proof of the bond being broken. The devastation of this tragedy. My story is not of a bunch of students getting together and doing research on mice taken away from their mommy. But a human story about knowing I came from someone wonderful whose actual heart and soul I connected with for a short peiod of time. I know this because I never heard spoken words from her that she loved me but know in my heart that she did. That is why I pined for this all my life. That is why despite any abuse I got from the adopted family I still am able to love and be kind. Because the woman I bonded with was kind and loving. This negativity has helped me realize where I came from. So thanks NewYork. It has made me think about her and how much she really loved me. I will survive and be okay. I just miss her that is my problem.....Love you mom wherever you are. Your daughter Betsy
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This brought a tear to my eye and I support you totally and fully!
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Me too Socalgirl!
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BRAVO,BRAVO!!!!you put this in a great perspective:)Thank you for your heartfelt post.
You are an inspiration to me.
Thank you,Betsy
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Betsy I think it's wonderful you took the high road and a postive outlook on the mini drama that was created. You are a wonderful person!
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I had never known how to write my feelings til I came to this sight. I don't have to think about what I am writing anymore it is all just coming from my heart. This is healing my pain. Thanks so much for listening and support. Love Betsy
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BEAUTIFUL.
((((((((HUGS))))))))))
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